WHY YOU MAY FOREVER REMAIN A SINGLE AS A LADY IF YOU DON'T DO THIS.



There are some very beautiful, highly skilled and good ladies that may finally remain single not because God did not create an Adam who will like them enough to marry them, but they are not attractive enough to be found. 

Now before you run off to the wash room to make yourself a slay queen; you might want to go about working on yourself or seeking counsel if you have struggles with the following:

a. Anger
b. Low self-esteem
c. Lack of direction/focus in life
d. Cold look/disinterested expression
e. Haughty look
f. Keen to argument.

These things can show up in relationship that you didn’t think were going to be turn offs. To add more to the lists, you might want to do these following things:

a. Learn to dress well ( not all men would like to meet their food uncovered)
b. Learn how to cook
c. Learn social and communication skills
d. Learn appropriate manners/courtesy
e. Learn to be friendly
f. Learn to have a brighter look.

Please ladies, stop hiding under a spirituality garb and believing that God will bring your husband to your prayer room. If you are unattractive or unsociable, it may take forever waiting on God if it’s His plan for you to work on yourself in character and productive wise. 

What proof is this?
 Men have different taste for what makes a woman attractive to them. And character is the deepest gauge. If you don’t know how to mingle with your fellow girls or you don’t have some eligible gentlemen you socialize with irrespective of status or maybe you don’t have a knack for attending purposeful programs or engaging in teamworks, then how will you glean some pieces of useful information about how marriage or men work or for you to stand by the way of a potential suitor? This is not the same thing as roaming around or flopping on every man in Jean or designers.

And not every good guys want your body in a premarital relationship. They only need to stay around you a few times to know whether you are not just only a beauty having busts but with brains. One of them is if your are not going to be a liability. Oh yes. Let's argue it.

However, so many ladies overtime and by some reasons or experiences has built an offensive mechanisms against guys. Any guys that Comes their way always has an ulterior motive. No matter what you may think or hold against men not every men is an 'hire killer!'.  One may even refer someone to you because he likes your kind of person fit for his kind of friend. Dear lady, loosen up, but guard up. 

Thank you for reading.


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